Dating Advice Women

Huge Dating Mistakes - That Many Women Are Guilty Of!

First of all, the impression you make is going to impact how he views you and whether or not he wants to go out with you or go out with you again.
These are common mistakes that are made all the time by women that hinder their success with men.
These dating no-no's can be made before the first date or on the first date - either way they will turn a man off, and most likely leave you wondering why he hasn't called back
Mistake 1 - Blurting out everything about your life all at once

We start rambling and it can be hard to stop sometimes and rambling is always accompanied by sharing our thoughts, feelings, and facts that don’t need to be shared – just yet.

He doesn't want to know about your ex-boyfriends, past mistakes, hard to live with traits, or your view on where you go when you die. Some things need to be shared when you have gotten to know each other a little bit better - and left alone until then.
Mistake 2 - Talking negatively and whining about everything!

Being a negative person will change anyone's view about you in an instant. And it will not be about how great you are but instead how annoying and depressing you are. It doesn't matter how cute or innocent you think your whining is.

It seems like a lot of people start conversations off with a negative tone and it has almost become the normal thing to do nowadays. Listen to the next person who approaches you and I'm willing to bet I'm right.

No one wants to be surrounded by negative people and no one is attracted to negative people. So imagine what they will think about you when the first impression you give them is of a negative and whiny woman.

Keep the conversation on a positive note and do not complain about everything under the sun no matter how tempted you are to do it
Mistake 3 - Irrelevant conversations
Make sure you keep your conversation to relevant information.

For example, if he mentions that the weather is really nice today do not start talking about how the weather was on your last vacation. (This will almost always lead to rambling as well by the way).

Keep it on track and agree about the weather and talk about how great it is for what you are doing today. That will lead to more relevant conversation about the day and what the two of you have planned.

Another great tip is to talk about your surroundings. This will keep the conversation in the moment which will allow you to be in the moment as well and avoid rambling.
So if you are drinking coffee then talk about the coffee shop. Or if you are in a restaurant then talk about the decor and food