How To Attract A Lady

Self confidence is one of the top things women look for, and are attracted to, in a guy. Actually if we are going to get real about it...self confidence is what everything else stems from.

If you don't have confidence then you don't believe that you are worthy of a woman and you don't believe that you can please her the way she wants to be pleased.

I'm talking about feel it to the bone confidence.

Women can sense that confidence from a mile away! They know when you are scared and unsure of yourself, and it's not a sexy attribute to have.

That's why all those guys who are timid and down on themselves don't get a lot of woman - or should I say keep a lot of woman.

They may get a woman out of sheer luck. She may feel bad for him. She may see something that he doesn't. She may have caught him on a day that he had liquid courage in him. Either way she will soon catch on to his low self-worth and be on her way to someone else.

So get some confidence in yourself as a person, and your abilities to please a woman.

As always, I recommend supreme self confidence for that job. Slade Shaw gives it to you straight, and tells it like it needs to be told. You will thank him in the end.

Knowledge of What Women Want, Like, and Desire

You can't be an accountant if you know nothing about accounting. You can't swim across a lake if you don't know how to swim. And you can't attract women if you know nothing about women.

Men and women are different. We literally think differently and act on different impulses.

Women like to be heard. Men don't always have that need to be acknowledged like that.

Women take things to heart and can be way more emotional than men. Men move past things quicker than women can.

Women can lose an orgasm if something distracts her - even if she's on the brink of an orgasm. Men see it through.

There are many differences between women and men.

Your job is to understand that.

It allows you to understand why she thinks the way she does and what she wants in her life. It allows you to approach a woman knowing the right things to say and do that won't offend her, but will instead have her interest locked on you.

Understanding women is essential in attracting them.

There are guys who do not have a clue. They say the wrong things and do the wrong things constantly. This turns women off from them completely. Then they do it all over again! Only to turn more women off. If they just made some changes in the way they talk or act, they would have it made.

The only way to understand women is to learn from people who know what they are talking about.

There are two places that I recommend you start learning.

If you want to understand what women are looking for outside of bed (which is the first step to getting them into bed) then you want to read fireworks with females.

If you want to understand what women want in bed - what their orgasms are made of - and how you can make her have them, then you want to read my post on how to please your woman in bed.

Fear Holds Back Dreams and Desires - And Women

Fear will stop you in your tracks when you are approaching a woman you like. It will hold you back from approaching her altogether. And it will stand between the life you could have, or the life you have now.

I feel like I'm being really dramatic, but the truth is - it's true.

There is nothing to fear but fear itself - Franklin D Roosevelt

What's the worse that can happen if you get rejected by that woman?

• You move on with life.

• You find out that she wasn't the one for you.

• You find someone who is for you.
• Now what's the worse that can happen if you let fear hold you back from even trying?

• You will never know if you could have succeeded and you spend a lifetime with what if's.

In the end of your life you are not going to care about that girl who rejected you, but you will care about the one girl who made your life complete.

So don't let fear hold you back. Arm yourself with knowledge and information about women. Get the self-confidence you need in yourself to understand all that you have to offer a woman. Then go out and attract women to you that you want in your life.

It's just that easy