How To Please a Woman in Bed

How to please a woman orally, sexually, and even mentally can be a mystery to some men but I'm here to take away the mystery and offer you a chance to be one of the rare guys who know what they are actually doing to a woman in bed and whether or not what they are doing is actually working.

First of all you should know that many women do not know how to pleasure themselves, and the percentage of women who have had an orgasm is actually quite shockingly low.

So if a woman has not learned how to pleasure herself and has never experienced an orgasm then she is not going to be able to help you out in the bedroom as far as pleasing her goes
This means that you have to learn how to satisfy a woman without her help.



The good news is that if you can figure it all out then you become the guy who first gave her that pleasure and taught her about her body, and that makes you something special that she will always be thankful for.



If there's one thing that you should know about women and their ability to reach an orgasm, it's that they need all their senses stimulated to do so.



Women need to 'be in the mood' which means their brain needs to be thinking about sex first for their their body to follow. If there brain is thinking about the days problems or tomorrow's tasks then they are never going to reach an orgasm and most likely will not be in the mood even if they are participating in the act.



Did you know that a woman can be at the brink of orgasm but if she is distracted by another thought she will automatically drop off the orgasm cliff and have to start the whole build up process again? It's not fair but it's true. This is why keeping her mind engaged is so important.



So start by touching her lightly on the arm or neck while you are not even thinking about sex. This will engage her brain towards being turned on and starting to think about sex. Watching a sexy movie is a great way to get her in the mood because she will be forced to think about sex and start thinking about it with you.



My point is to build up the tension as you go and get her mind more and more focused on the bedroom and her body wanting more and more. Get rid of the other thoughts she has going on and keep her engaged in the thought of pleasure.



Watch her reaction the next time you want sex and just abruptly try to start it. Chances are she's going to not be as hot as she would be if you were to build up to it.



Women also need a bigger connection during sex than guys do to keep them focused and engaged.



So keep eye contact up, talk to her, whisper in her ear, touch her all over, and let her know that you are in bed with her for more than just her vagina and breasts. She'll love it and have a better chance of orgasm.



If you want to learn everything you can about getting her turned on and in the mood, engaged in sex, and have her heading in the right direction for an orgasm then you have to read my next blog that will really talk about sex in the Nigerian context.